Dear Sir,
MY HUSBAND divorced me a few years ago. Since then I got scared of love and men. I gave my life to God and my children. But now a nice guy wishes to marry me. But I feel so scared to get into a relationship again. My heart still aches from that bitter divorce. Can you offer some advice? Please.
Divorcee,

“One door closed, another one opened.” I am so sorry you’ve earned the title of divorcee. But that’s just a stigma. You are still you. You still have a lot to give. Do not live only for God or your children. You owe it to yourself to live for yourself too. So do not live in a “cocoon” Blossom again! Be a wife! Be a mother-again. Ask yourself: What can I do to make someone happy? God is satisfied with our prayers, but we must be good to others. Go for it! You can only know how to swim, by plunging into the water.

You have the potential to offer PLJ –Peace, love and joy. One door closed, another one open. The suitor might be the one to heal your heart and put you back on the stairway to happiness. But proceed slowly. The heart is so remarkable. It can bounce back. Don’t dry up. Let your petals see light again. Begin anew .Things will work out .Trust me, give of yourself. It’s the best charity and God will be pleased.

Wish you luck
Uncle Henry