I’VE been with my boyfriend five years. What began as a long-distance relationship changed as we decided to move in together last year. Since he had not finished college, I reluctantly quit my job and moved from my hometown. He has always shown an affinity for travel, and a dislike towards children. After many tear-filled conversations, we agreed it may be better for me to find someone who wants kids as well.
I took all the necessary action to move, quitting my job and planning the long move back. Days before my appointed leaving date, he began saying he would like the chance to “warm up” to the idea of having a child, and to give him six months, the end of our lease agreement.
He tells me I don’t trust him if I can’t give him that time to think about it, but truthfully, he hasn’t changed in five years. To make everything worse, he is now on a two-week trip, and this was the time I planned on moving home.
Teresa

Teresa,
The time he wants you to wait matches the remaining time on the lease. Mmmm! He says you don’t trust him. Good; neither do we. Let him come home to a house without children, and without the woman who wants them.
Wayne & Tamara