MY WIFE and I have been together six years, and last month, we got married. Before we married, I cheated by texting this girl. My wife went through my phone and found that out, but we stayed together.
Then last year, I found out she was having sex with the brother of a co-worker. She told me she was just getting even with me for texting this girl. So, we decide to stay together and change our numbers, and no more Facebook.

Yesterday at my mom’s wedding, I go through her phone and find out she met this guy at her job, and they have been texting for weeks. I confront her, and she tells me she doesn’t know what I do at work, so that’s why she was talking to him. What do I do?
Bruce

Bruce,
Our favourite definition of infinity is this: Infinity is everything you can think of, plus one more thing.

There is no end to infinity. Like infinity, you two have been going back and forth, tit for tat, with no end in sight. You both act as if you are dating, and dating in a non-exclusive way.

The main problem with your relationship is the marriage license. Throw that out, and neither of you is doing anything wrong. You can make this relationship right by ending it.
Wayne & Tamara