I SIGNED UP on a website to meet people, and this guy sent me a really lovely e-mail saying he’d like to get together. He seemed like a great catch. He gave me his phone number, and reiterated he wants to meet in person. He asked me a lot of random questions, and specifically, if I was a virgin or had done anything sexual. He also told me he is two years younger than what he put on his profile.
He seems not to believe what I say, and questions everything. He is at least 10 or 12 years older than me, and more than a foot taller. Should I ignore the red flags and meet anyway?

Melodie,
If a stranger speaks to you casually about sex, what do you think he wants? Casual sex: No attachment, no commitment, no love. A man his age might lie about being younger, but not about being older.
Questioning the integrity of others is a common ruse of liars. It throws the spotlight off them and forces their victim to feel the need to justify themselves. Lose him… Permanently.
Wayne & Tamara