I am 40, and the girl I am dating is 41. We dated many years ago, but after I found out about her promiscuous behaviour with some guys on our ball team, I distanced myself from her. I ended up moving away and getting married, and she married someone else.
The first year of her marriage, she was seeing an ex-boyfriend — who she describes as her first love — during her lunch hour. Then she met another guy who worked in her building. They flirted and talked about sex during coffee breaks.
Eventually, she had sex with him while her husband was out of town, and her young son was upstairs sleeping. This troubles me, but she was honest about it, which, I guess, is a good thing.
She admits to being intimate with over 30 men. My latest concern came after we had dated for 10 months. I discovered she’d sent naked pictures of herself to another man, and had also met with him. I broke up with her, but she begged forgiveness, agreed to counselling, and promised not to see him. Still, I’m not sure I can get over her infidelity.