My boyfriend and I met his senior year in college — I’m still in school — and he didn’t want to be tied down during his last college days. Now, two years later, things have changed. I was thrilled when he wanted to take things to the next level. Recently, however, I’ve been encountering a grass-is-greener mindset. I am surrounded by my single friends, and our campus is definitely not conducive to serious relationships. What if I’m giving up the college experience, only to have him dump me down the road for some hot chick in grad school.

One night I let another boy kiss me. It was wrong, I know that. But that is as far as it went. I will work harder than ever before to be loyal and good to my boyfriend. But is this enough?