SO this column serves a few purposes. I have been getting emails from people asking me to discuss personal hygiene as their family members are not taking care of it as much because they are not leaving home as often. Also, I would like to lower the serious expectations of change when it comes to improving mental health; reminding everyone that there are simple things that will make a positive difference.
I was really irritated yesterday, for no reason in particular- it was just one of those days. So I took to my bedroom and looked around and saw what a mess it was. Now, I’m definitely messy- I’m not embarrassed to say it simply because there is a huge difference between messy and dirty. Messy is being able to see clothes on the floor or an unmade bed and still continue with your day. In my opinion, dirty is classified as being able to see old plates of food around or not washing dishes for a few days. So, I’m comfortable saying that I am messy. Anyway, back to the story- after I took to my room and saw how messy it was, I became even more agitated and took to my unmade bed. However, something told me to get up and clean the mess so I did. I honestly cannot explain how fast my mood lifted when I had cleared the clutter and my personal space was no longer messy. This got me thinking – a simple way to improve mental health- stay clean and uncluttered!
Many of us look at cleaning as a chore and always try to get others to do the work. But have we stopped to think how it may actually benefit us- both physically and mentally?
People who live in clutter or ‘unfinished projects’ are more likely to be stressed, irritated, aggravated and overall fatigued. A messy or dirty environment can cause distraction and low focus, productivity and efficiency and therefore may make routine tasks seem overwhelming on a whole.
When your environment is messy or cluttered, it doesn’t seem restful; it will always seem like there is something else to get done- because there is! It causes anxiety that we are not even aware of. It is even possible to develop additional mental illnesses such as depression or bipolar disorder.
On the other hand, seeing and being in a clean environment boosts our mood and optimism. Basically, there is peace and positivity behind organisation.
We know it helps our immune system as cleaning often removes any pollutants or bacteria that may cause anything from allergies to infections.
There have even been studies conducted in the United States to show the drastic benefits of a clean environment. One particular study followed over 900 Americans between the ages of 49-65. Those who made an effort to live in a cleaner environment ate healthier, were more physically active and were even less likely to develop heart disease than those who had untidy surroundings. Apparently, people even sleep better in a clean environment. A separate study conducted by the National Sleep Foundation determined that those who made their bed in the morning and kept a clean bedroom were 19% more likely to have better sleep. 75 percent of those people also reported better sleep when they washed their bed sheets more. Yes, the studies that people take the time to do huh? But, we do benefit from it if we listen.
Basically, when our surroundings look good, we begin to feel good. This means our energy levels, self-esteem, self-confidence and self-worth all increase- simply by a clean environment. You also want the people around you to positively grow and feel this way- a way that you cannot feel in a clustered or chaotic environment. It can also improve our relationships. How many of us have had fights with our partners because of a messed that was created? My guess is almost every single one of us. Let’s avoid this one now.
It’s important to note that the loss of motivation to keep a clean environment may be a warning sign of a mental illness such as depression or anxiety. When we feel this way, we barely want to get out of bed- let alone make it. However, if a clean environment can have this sort of change, imagine how important it is for our bodies to be clean!
There are ways to become a cleaner person if you aren’t already. Make a list of goals to do every day or week- to ensure that the environment is always healthy and clean. You can split them with others or do it yourself! When you start feeling the benefits of a clean environment, your motivation to keep cleaning will build. Then maybe you’ll be comfortable having more people over to the house. Maybe set certain days and times to do certain things so it becomes routine rather than an annoyance.
If you feel like your house just can’t get clean, it means you have too much clutter- which I know can be super hard to rid. Maybe we feel that we may one day need all of it but we won’t. Try donating things that you haven’t used in 6 or more months. Sometimes, having less is actually more.
If your whole house is a mess, don’t feel overwhelmed as you can’t tackle it in one day. Take it one room at a time or heck, one corner at a time- you can do it. Start by simply making your bed every morning or washing each dish after you’ve used it so they don’t pile up.
Finally, please keep in mind, that for the lucky of us, our home is our haven- a safe space in a stressful world. It’s important to respect it. For those who sadly do not feel the same way, just try the cleanliness route- I really hope it makes a difference.
There is a famous quote- “Your body is your temple and your home is where it resides.”- so keep them both clean.
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