I AM A legally separated man who is going through a divorce. A friend introduced me to his girlfriend about a year ago. We immediately took to each other, but until a month ago, we didn’t realise how the other one felt. I was happily married when we met, but my wife fooled around on me, so we split up. Anyway, I started talking to my friend’s girlfriend. While he was away for two weeks of job training, we began seeing each other.
We both want to be together, but don’t know what to do. She is four months pregnant by him, and is happy with him. On the other hand, she wants me, and I really want her. Do you have any suggestion on how I, or we, should handle this situation?